Inspiration Is All Around You

It’s funny to find myself writing a blog on a Sunday morning. I mean, we all should be sleeping in or going to church or going on a bike ride. I have plans for later but for now I have what everyone looks for on a Sunday Morning — inspiration.

Inspiration is all around you.

Having had a crappy end of the week and too much to drink Friday night (I don’t drink so it didn’t take much) and the body hangover of a 64-year-old, it’s easy to be cranky and crabby on this cool morning. But over the weekend I came across two people that truly inspired me to be a better person.

To be a better me.

My first inspriation was my 16-year-old niece. Always on the chubby side, I worried about her. Things may have changed in high school since I went 150 years ago, but teens are still teens, and it’s still easy to make fun of someone who looks different. Being made fun of in junior high, I looked at her through my own insecurities.

Yesterday at a family party I saw the girl again, and she had changed. She was still the smart, funny adolescent girl I’ve come to love, but she was 30 pounds lighter.

I almost didn’t recognize her.

Being a granny-aunt, I feared she did something really drastic. I probably would have. But she is smarter and more grown up than I. More salads, less treats, lots of water. She told me all about it.

And I am so proud of her.

My second inspiration is my sister-in-law. We lost my brother a few years ago, a heartbreaking experience. Not a day goes by where I don’t miss him. His wife took it as well as she could. We all move on, she along with her two awesome kids.

I saw a pic of her and her family on FB this morning, and it looked like she dropped a ton of weight. A ton. She looked like a totally different person. I haven’t asked her yet how she did it, but whatever she did had added 30 years back onto her face. I see my brother in her children’s eyes, and I see a content person in hers.

And I am so proud of her.

My son is another one. He used to be a skinny in track and field in high school. 10 years of marriage and two kids later, he was thicker than he wanted to be. It was as if a lightbulb went off in his head and he turned to healthy eating. 25 pounds later he’s in the gym all the time, an inspiration to me and his kids as well.

I have been on a weight thing myself since January. I have lost a bit of weight, but because I always wear big clothes I don’t think people can tell. It doesn’t matter. I eat healthier now. I walk more, I’m not really into junk food. I eat what I want but I eat one or two bites, not one or two portions. We all work on weight loss our own way. I know my niece did, I know my sister-in-law did.

We all want to live longer. We want to be inspired. We want to be around for our grandkids and our friend’s grandkids. We want to live and love and be able to walk up the stairs without our chests hurting.

Find inspiration in your life. Let it touch your own heart. Whether it’s to lose weight to be healthier or to start writing the novel you’ve always had in your heart, look around you. There is plenty of inspiration around you. Take that first step.

Trust me. You won’t fall. Keep walking. Be your OWN inspiration.

8 thoughts on “Inspiration Is All Around You

  1. Your comment is heartening too. There are people, music, laughter all around us. It doesn’t cost a thing…we just have to open our eyes to it. Thank you for making my evening!

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  2. Your post is deeply inspiring. Everyone should take it, or leave it, but ā€” “Inspiration Is All Around US”. Most especially, it’s around the things that don’t belong to us, like the trees, clouds, birds, the stars and other attractive created objects. I believe that ā€” most times, it’s easier for those who have little (or no) material possessions, to see that inspiration in the commonest of things around us.


  3. I think it’s because people like you and me love to write. Period. There are so many directions we can go, and if you love your craft, you want to go down all those paths! So write about the bad AND the good, the magical and the practical. Don’t ever give up!

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  4. So many things inspire me… Politicians, lawyers, drunk drivers, cheaters, liars… And of course you realize I’m kidding šŸ™‚ This is an excellent post and brings to light some of the things that are inspirational that we often overlook šŸ™‚

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  5. That is what love and life is all about. I’m sorry for your loss, but happy for your memories. I hope one day my kids and family and friends remember me that way. Bless you.

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  6. My departed wife is my inspiration, she suffered from severe MS for thirty years, and during that time there wasn’t a day go bye without her giving me her big beautiful smile, and I awake every morning, with that wonderfully positive image.

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