I have returned from a week of springtime ocean waves and beach in Destin, Florida. I am sunburn (tourist), jet-lagged (19 hours of driving one way), and sweetened out (Buc-ee’s Beaver Nuggets). I also had a marvelous time with my hubby, son, grandkids, and assorted other family members.
One of the things I’ve always wanted to do was walk the beach somewhere. Florida supplied that magical moment, although, being a little stiff these days, I was also content to sit on my balcony and watch the crashing waves with a cup of coffee and a blanket.
Which got me thinking … was this a Bucket List moment?
I don’t have a Bucket List per se. There’s so many things I’d love to do the rest of my life that my bucket list would be more than 20 pages long.
Bucket lists are made of those things one wants to do before they die. I’ve known people who have put parasailing alongside kissing the Blarney Stone as Bucket List must-haves. Other lists include seeing the Southern Cross, eating macaroons in France and spotting a whale in the ocean.
All admirable goals.
There is something so final about completing one’s Bucket List, though, that makes me not want to make one.
I’ve never had one single overwhelming desire to do much of anything during my 70-odd years of living here on Earth. I have experiences in my past that I remember to this day that, looking back, could be counted on a Bucket List. I sat at the same table at Le Recrutement Café in Paris that I once saw in a photograph; I saw the King Tut mask when it visited the Art Institute in Chicago in 1977; I was at the Beatles in concert at Comiskey Park in Chicago in August of 1965.
These memories weren’t on any list — they were just opportunities that came my way through the years.
Yet standing on the beach watching sunset over the ocean was no doubt something I wanted to experience before I left this world. That moment of beauty, of cosmic connection, was something to experience. It was a different connection than watching moonrise over the fields or sitting on a tree stump in the middle of the woods, both of which I’ve done too.
My take on the whole Bucket List thing is that one needs to think about what experiences are actually possible and which will never happen. Honesty can be a downer, but I also believe in the lemons-to-lemonade theory.
You can cross things off of your Bucket List every day.
Can’t make it to the upcoming Van Gogh: The Roulin Family Portraits at the Museum of Fine Arts Boston? Attend a local art gallery’s exhibitions. Can’t fly to the Metropolitan Opera House to hear Rossini’s Il Barbiere di Siviglia? Listen to the Met’s Saturday Matinee Broadcasts on public radio. Can’t experience sunset on the Hawaiian shore? Find a quiet spot and watch the sun set over your own town or city.
I’m not downplaying Bucket Lists. I may start one just to narrow down what I’d like to see and do before I check out the big Taj Mahal in the sky.
Until then, I’m setting achievable Bucket List goals.
Don’t make a bucket list of things you’ll never do. Don’t wait to experience awe, inspiration, peace or nirvana. Make your own version of a Bucket List , and start to experience life NOW.
Do you have a Bucket List? What’s on your list?






















A summer’s night














Is There Soccer In Heaven?










Last Saturday I posted that there are cat people and dog people and no-pet people. All have a place in this world.
















Sometimes when I look back through my galleries I realize how many artists I’ve almost forgotten I’ve highlighted. There are so many categories I can’t begin go keep track of who has come and gone.

























There are cat people and dog people and no-pet people. All have a place in this world.




















I write to share






The other day I posted three more of what I endearingly call “My Masterpieces,” a winter’s art project. I am not a professional artist — I’m actually not a professional “anything.” But I love to play.
Having fun looking backwards at my Days of Future Art, seeing what was a hit and what was a miss. I can definitely tell which were experimental and which were a definite plan. Sometimes any sort of art can do that to you — start out with one idea and wind up with something different. Writing did that alot to me, too.























Flashing back through my Sunday Evening Art Gallery blogs, I get a thrill every time I look — really look — at how other artists show their Creativity.






























Deep cold outside today — and lots of snow to come tonight. Welcome to Wisconsin.















































There is always two sides to a coin — a perfect side and a flawed side.





















Every once in a while one needs to be weird and out there on a Saturday morning (although I’m weird and out there more often than not…)















































Have you ever had one of those days? Weeks? 



























































































Sunday/Monday Evening Art Gallery — Jamie Moreno

or having a cup of Caffè Totò at the 





























I don’t know if New Year’s Resolutions are still a big thing these days.







