Thanksgiving is a time to say
THANK YOU FOR BEING YOU!!
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Be Thankful Every Day
Many of us carry around a lot of pain inside.
Some of it physical: our bodies have started acting up and there is not much we can do to stop it.
A lot of it is internal: we have lost loved ones, family members and friends.
We suffer emotional pain from war, hatred, and famine. It hurts even more because most times there’s nothing we can do about it.
It never seems to stop.
But there is always room to be thankful.
Today — and every day.
Our blessings really outweigh our pains, even if we fail to see that on a daily basis.
This Thanksgiving, don’t underestimate the amount of your burdens. But don’t let them turn you away from the hope and beauty around you.
Somewhere a happy baby is being played with. Somewhere there is sunset on a lake and snow on the slopes. Someone somewhere is falling in love, getting married, saying “I love you.” Someone is growing old with someone else, dancing to Glenn Miller or Sting or Alan Jackson.
Someone is giving a hug to someone who needs one, someone is getting rocked to sleep, someone is wishing on a star.
There is a lot to be thankful for. This Thanksgiving, next Thanksgiving, and every day in between.
Find a way to be happy this wonderful day.
No one deserves it more than you.
Happy Thanksgiving!!
Most people who blog will write a Thanksgiving blog thanking the universe for the abundance and blessings they have.
I am one of those blog people.
But I will keep it short and sweet — gotta get baking —
Thank you for following
For sharing
And caring
For reading and breathing andÂ
waking up every morning
knowing you have another chance
to be creative
to be loving
to be nice
to make a difference
HAPPY THANKSGIVING!
Now — back to making that apple strudel —
Leftover Stuffing and Gravy
Yesterday was a day of thanks.
Hopefully all of us were thankful for whatever we have, wherever we were, whatever we were doing. Lots of Happy Thanksgiving turkeys on my FB feed.
Many of us are off work the following day too. The madness of Black Friday, the sleepiness of day-after turkey and fixings, the peace and quiet after spending two days with three wild and adorable grand kids.
So now what?
Do you feel any more thankful today than yesterday?
Find any more blessings under your pillow or at your doorway?
Hopefully the thank yous never stop. For Thanksgiving is just another day in the cosmic wheel spinaroonie of life.
I am all for holidays. It’s the time of year to take a break from the every day grind and wasted hours and unfulfilled promises we all go through. Advertising assures us that we all have something to be thankful for, including three football games in one day and leftover turkey for the next week.
But I also believe that every morning you open your eyes, every morning you can snuggle in your covers for an extra five minutes is cause for thanksgiving.Â
There always has been, always will be, someone who has it worse, and someone who has it better than you. It’s just how life is. The key to happiness is to not judge yourself by everyone else’s standards.
Of course, everyone has been saying that since Og found out his neighbor’s cave was bigger than his and included a hot spring in the back.
It’s easy to say thank you when someone gives you a big gift for Christmas or takes you out to dinner at a really nice restaurant. But it’s just as easy to say thank you when a friend throws in a frozen pizza for dinner or offers to give you a ride to work because your car is in the shop. Â
Giving thanks is not just a one-day affair. Giving thanks is a year-long project.Â
Give thanks for the sun in the morning and moon at night. Give thanks you have the ability to read, draw, to form your hands around a potter’s wheel. That every day you get another chance to encourage someone else’s dream while you work on your own.
You can do it. Day after day. For in helping someone else, you help yourself.
And, if you are lucky, you can help yourself to yesterday’s stuffing and gravy as well!
Thanks for the Blogging
Thanksgiving. Â That time of year when we eat too much, watch too much football, and sleep away the day. It also is the day we give thanks for friends and family and our life, such as it is.
This Thanksgiving I want to put an extra thank-you out there. A thanks to the wonderfully fun, entertaining, and sometimes poignant blogs and bloggers that I follow.
I know there are hundreds of thousands of blogs out there; millions reading, billions thinking about the whole process. Like you, I don’t have a lot of time to read — I, too, have a bizillion other creative paths to walk down. (Think of how tired we all are!)
But I’d like to thank the following bloggers for keeping my dream alive. I know there are some that I have missed, some who have taken a break from blogging, and many that I should be following, but in my heart I love you all.
Check them out, and, if they tickle your fancy, give them a follow!
The Return of the Modern Philosopher. Very funny blog about aliens, vampires, gargoyles, and love and life in Maine.  https://moviewriternyu.wordpress.com/
Everyone Has a Story. Â Strong stories about divorce, recovery, and discovering life again. Â http://everyonehasastory.me/
Maxima.  Love poems that cannot help but stoke the flames in your heart. https://hillsofherchastity.wordpress.com/
Not Quite Old.  Funny, uplifting blog about finding the balance between growing old gracefully and staying as young as possible. https://notquiteold.wordpress.com/
Live & Learn. Â Uplifting blog dances across all topics, with perfect pictures to match. Â http://davidkanigan.com/
Leaf and Twig. Gorgeous images accompanied with the perfect haiku.    https://leafandtwig.wordpress.com/
Catwoods Porch Party. Â Art, cats, nature, animals, weather, and whatever. Â Â catwoodsporchparty.wordpress.com
Dawn Whitehand.  A wonderful Australian artist, making unique mixed media sculptures from clay, found objects and textured materials which are based on organic natural forms.  dawnwhitehand.wordpress.com. (She also has a kickin’ blog of poetry and images at apoemandadrawingaday.wordpress.com.)
gwenniesworld.  Marvelous photography with an eye for nature. gwenniesworld.wordpress.com
The Year(s) of Living Non-Judgmentally.  Combines personal memories, physical hardships, and a plethora of images reflecting her everyday life. annkoplow.wordpress.com
ImaginePublicity. Motivation and marketing savvy. imaginepublicity.com
The Beauty Along the Road. Â Discovering Beauty in the small details of our lives through scenery photography and heartfelt words. beautyalongtheroad.wordpress.com
Glorialana’s Blog. Â An uplifting, sensitive blog that also slices gently into your heart and soul. glorialana.com
Breezy Books. Encouraging advice and personal stories for those who love to write. breezybooksblog.wordpress.com
Victoria K. Gallagher.  Flash-Fiction with a cup of Re-Ali-Tea, as she so aptly puts it. victoriakgallagher.wordpress.com
Carol Balawyder. Writing about justice, mid-life dating, grief, inspiring blogs, and awesome writing workshops.    carolbalawyder.com
Andra Watkins.  Best selling author and traveler who explores family and life relationships.  andrawatkins.com
The Write Transition.  A medical thriller author, physician, public health advocate, and writer who believes every experience is worthwhile, even if our paths deviate from where we started.  carrierubin.com
Jillian Maas Backman. Â Best selling author and motivational speaker, a creative muse who ties intuition to success on all levels. Â www.jillianmaasbackman.com
Cats at the Bar. Funny adventures of a boatload of cats.  catsatthebar.org
Figments of a DuTchess.  Creative thinker and a successful participant in Weekly Photo Challenges. drieskewrites.wordpress.com
Booksphotographsandartwork’s Blog.  Great eye for photography, with a book review now and then. booksphotographsandartwork.wordpress.com
gwenniesgarden.  Some of the most unique and gorgeous flowers and garden photography I’ve seen.  gwenniesgarden.wordpress.com
Friendly Fairy Tales. Â Fairy tales and poetry celebrating magic and nature for kids of all ages. http://www.friendlyfairytales.com
hugmamma’s MIND, BODY and SOUL. Â A mother’s love for her daughter and her life is reflected in her heart-warming tales. Â www.hugmamma.com
Please Pass the Recipe. Â Original and traditional recipes and the stories that go with them. Â www.pleasepasstherecipe.com
A Journey Called Life… Â Everything from poetry to fantastic images to stories about life. Â www.architar.wordpress.com
The Procrastiwriter. A motivator (and procrastinator) who shows how to be a successful writer around a full-time life. www.theprocrastiwriter.com
And last, but not least, Sunday Evening Art Gallery. An online art gallery featuring unique, fantastic art and artists. www.sundayeveningartgallery.com
HAPPY TURKEY DAY!
HallowThankMas
Ahhhh….All Hallow’s Eve is just a few days away. Time for candy and pumpkins and ghosts…and the official start of Christmas advertising.
Forget what used to be — forget that one didn’t hear “Jingle Bell Rock” or see a decorated Christmas tree until Thanksgiving. I’ve been in stores with entire sections cut off for Christmas decor already, and even heard a Christmasy song on TV last week, too.
I’m not even done raking my leaves.
I’m sure there will be hundreds of blogs and articles about getting back to “old-fashioned” Christmases and values and saying bah-humbug to commercialism. And thousands more toting their wares.
How can we escape the mania that is now called HallowThankMas?
I have a 5 year-old and a 8-week-old in the house these days. They make me want to go all out for Christmas — something I’ve let slide the last few years. Trees and decorations and Christmas Villages — all the stuff that made my Christmas fun through my formative years.
Yet they start advertising toys and merchandise so early, that by the time you get around buying that one “special” thing, that “special” thing is sold out. You don’t even have your Thanksgiving turkey bought and you are expected to decorate your house with garland and lights and blow-up snowmen. If you don’t, your kids, your grandkids, wonder what’s wrong with you.
I know it’s a bit early to gripe about a holiday three holidays away, but sometimes the pressure to roll along with the tide gets to be too much. I already don’t put my tree up until after Thanksgiving; I don’t watch Charlie Brown’s Christmas or Elf or It’s a Wonderful Life until Christmas week. I do drive down Candy Cane Lane during December, and enjoy the parties and appearances of the pretend Santas and the choirs in church.
But there has to be a line drawn between the golden hues of autumn and the snowfall of Christmas Eve. There has to be an appreciation of each special day for its own sake. It’s hard to buy Halloween decorations for your own little celebration when Christmas lights are blinking down at the end of the aisle. It’s hard to get your family together for a Thanksgiving Day dinner when everyone’s planning New Year’s Eve already.
I admit, I’m not an angel. “Sleigh Ride” and “Christmas in Sarajevo” never get old. I make an effort to share the “old ways” with my kids and grandkids, the meaning behind the words, the love, the magic of the Christmas season.
But I refuse to give in to full-fledged commercialism.
At least until Black Friday. That’s when my new TV will go on sale.
Unclogging the Soul
The news has been pretty overwhelming for my middle aged mind to wrap around lately. The aftermath in Ferguson doesn’t make sense to me, even if you whole-heartedly have an opinion on the decision. The people whose businesses were set on fire and destroyed or sacked did nothing to the victim; the broken communication between sides has done nothing but destroy lives of innocent people who have worked hard for a living, hard for their money, hard for their very survival.
But I stray, because I don’t want my blogging world to be one of destruction. I want this world to be one of hope. Of laughs and rolling of the eye and a tear now and then because you “get it.”
Yet there are more stories. More horrors. More wtf’s going on in this world. And this is nothing new. I follow a couple of bloggers whose lives have been turned upside down by abusers; mental, physical. Their stories are told their way, in a their blog, in their world. And my heart hurts for them, what they’ve endured. Fortunately, my heart soars for the salvation they’ve found, for the fresh start they have made for themselves.
A handful of my close friends have been through hell and back in their lives. Like one, continuous soap opera, you can’t think it can get any worse, and yet it does. Â Yet their love of life, of family and friends, has brought them across the burning coals and onto the soft, cool grass of today. And tomorrow. Â Their strength has become my inspiration.
And in my naive, white-bread way, I wonder: How did it ever get that way? How were abusers and mind melters and bullies allowed to run rampant through my friends and bloggers lives and get away with what they did? What ever happened to being a decent human being?
I wonder how we can ever keep our head above all this muck. How we can keep our souls from being tainted by all the madness that permeates the world. After all, one’s goodness can only so far. I can understand, I can empathize, I can share my experience and my support and my strength, even if it’s from an armchair quarterback’s position. But all the positive vibes I can share with those I love doesn’t change the way the world is today. And my inability to do anything to change and/or stop the rampage makes it worse. Being an overworked (and overtired) granny doesn’t give me much time to raise the flag and march. Nor would my competency make me much of a leader. I can honestly understand those who don’t turn the TV on anymore.
But I don’t want to be one of those guys. I don’t want to be ignorant of the pain and confusion and absurdity of what happens in our world every day. I want to be there for my friends and for those I don’t really know. I want to find a way to translate the horrors that go on every day, even though I can’t bear to think about most of them. How do I do that? How can I help and run at the same time?
Maybe the best thing I can do on this day before Thanksgiving Eve is stand by what I believe, and to keep it simple.
Stop being a bully when the world doesn’t go your way. Stop abusing those who don’t see things the way you do. Get over yourself. You’ll never change things by violence. Grow up. Â Learn to adapt. Â Take your complaints and your problems to those who can do something about it. Not to the innocent guy who just opened a snack shop with the last of his savings.
On the gentler side, take one step at a time. One breath at a time. Every day the sun rises is another chance to change your life. Don’t judge your situation by the way others handle theirs. Listen to your friends, to those you can trust. Change your attitude. Change your routine. Live to make others happy. Listen to others. Offer support, a hand. And don’t be afraid to share your own darkness. There is light in friendship.
It’s so easy to say, so hard to do.
But it can’t be any harder than setting a car on fire and flipping it on its side.
Humoring the Goddess 